When it comes to proposals, there are very few engagement ring styles that match the sentiment of a Toi Et Moi ring in Kingston.
It literally translates from french to “you and me,” signifying an equal partnership between two distinct identities.
A toi et moi ring is about bringing two focal stones together and setting them side by side.
A Historical Debut
This design is far from a modern trend. It stems from a royal love story between Napoleon and Josephine, the Queen of Italy. 
(Josephine & Napoleon)
At a time when single, coloured gemstones were the norm for engagement rings, the toi et moi became a bold statement of a partnership in love, instead of a traditional duty that marriage signified.
The Coming Together of Two Unique Gems
In a toi et moi ring, both the stones are focal points, unlike a more traditional setting where one stone is the highlight.
These are usually two different stones, set in a manner where they complement each other. Symmetry is not the end goal of a Toi Et Moi ring, a striking visual balance is what we want to achieve.
Each pairing of gemstones tells a unique visual tale, much like two people coming together in a marriage.
The gems can be identical if that is something you’d want. Customisations with these ring designs are almost endless.
The shape of the two stones is the part where you choose exactly what you like. If you have any favourite shapes or perhaps coloured stones, they would be incorporated in the design at this point. Hand picking stones for a custom design is an art in itself, where we have to balance the size, shape, cut, and tones.
(Radiant cut, radiant & emerald cut)
Some options for a two-stone Toi Et Moi ring include :
Diamond with gemstone or mossanite
Diamond with diamond
Gemstones in different colours or shapes
A solitaire band style is usually preferred for such designs, to highlight the beauty of each stone. Prongs can be used to style the stones up and also allow for maximum light to pass through. A bezel setting on the other hand frames the stones to highlight the cut.
The Placement
The placement of the stones in the ring is essential to the visual finish of the ring. The stones can be the same size, and placed in alignment for balance, or one can be tilted for a touch of whimsy. Stones with contrasting sizes can also be paired together for a sculptural look.
The Extras
Once the setting has been fixed, the extras can be added. Hidden halos, bezels, shoulder stones and different prong settings can further add a nuanced design element to a Toi Et Moi ring, so there’s always something new to look at!
Talk to us about the endless possibilities with a Toi Et Moi ring!